…When Do You Walk Away?
Despairing after the millionth literary agent rejection, I asked my book coach, “Should I just quit?”
I expected encouragement and affirmation. What I got: “Maybe you should quit.”
I was stung. Was I that bad of a writer?
But I hadn’t let her finish. “Really think about it,” she challenged. “What would your life look like if you did quit? Would you actually be happier?”
I thought about it. Really thought about it. I’d be happier not to get rejection after rejection (‘cause they suck no matter how much it’s expected in this business). And I’d have more free time. And I wouldn’t worry about my next scene. But no, I finally conceded that while I may be happier in the short term, in the long run, I wouldn’t be fulfilled. The desire to write still burned.
So I didn’t walk away. But I did step back and let myself breathe (and see my family) and then, when I was ready, I dove back in.
You may be ready for a break. And that’s okay! Or you may be ready to start writing or keep going.
But you know what’s also okay? If you want to walk away. It doesn’t make you a failure. It makes you smart, because after thoughtful consideration, you’re doing what’s right for you.
And the good thing about this writing life? It will always be there for you if you ever choose to come back.
I’ll be here for you whenever that is.